The Insolence of the "Triple-G"

Not to pinpoint or spotlight any individual columnist or magazine, but isn’t there an obvious problem here with this kind of advice?  Well, 2 out of the three G’s anyway… You know what I’m talking about – that whole idea that we must at least try to accommodate every perverse spousal whim and request; we must ‘give in’ and be ‘game’ for anything on the menu.  We must all be Yes-Men and Yes-Women when it comes to the sporadic bedroom anomaly.  Yesiree – bow, bend over and swallow; all at the same time.  Even if doing so engraves it permanently on our bedposts.  Doesn’t matter if it’s the grandest departure from the everyday we actually didn’t enjoy.  We must yield graciously and even gratuitously. Cause, y’know, we’d be selfish if we didn’t.